The only true victory is not the resolution of our circumstances; it’s in becoming like Jesus in the processes of life. It means you have to stop complaining, stop whining, stop being full of self-pity and playing the victim. That’s the worship language of hell: Moaning, complaining, and whining. You are in the Kingdom so you must be rejoicing, praising, worshiping, and giving thanks. You can’t do both, so you have got to choose one!
(from Cultivating The Fruit Of The Spirit)