I’ll tell you something, if you don’t glorify God in the process it’ll be hard to glorify God in the ministry. If you go through this process and you’re unchanged? Your ministry will revolve around you. You’ll want stupid things like status, titles, position. That’s why guys out there are putting “apostle” on their business cards. They haven’t gone through process. If they did they wouldn’t be doing that. The whole thing of process is that it’s designed to humble you.
(from Why Wounded & Betrayed Believers Are So Useful To God)