The Lord is allocating goodness and kindness to us all the time, and we learn in the fruit of the Spirit how to be proactive and how to allocate patience or grace or love or kindness to people that we’re having difficulties with. So all the difficult people around our life are designed to help us grow up in Jesus. That’s how God sees them. They are a gift of God to you! They’re all grace-growers to teach you how to grow in grace.
(from Making A Prophetic Impact)